What is it that i seek in others, or, in the things i love so much, as to start depending or expecting from them?
It got clearer to me that those are the aspects of my persona which i feel i lack or i need.Hence, i need to instill, nurture and maintain these very traits which i seek in others, within me.Looks to me a sure winner, for all seasons.This must obviate my dependence on individuals and things.
This awareness must stay with me regardless of my interactions (enriching or energy sapping) and the experiences with the on going life.I have decided not to get hurt or ecstatic and stay focused on developing this independence or shall i call it self-dependence?
In the process, it is possible i may get hurt, but scarred i shall not allow myself to get.Scars mean a deeper hurt which stays.I shall avoid clamping up when challenged, hurt or threatened.
I shall communicate, preferably initiate a dialogue with my OTHER self, the liberated self.
You bet, i shall always find what i sought in others, right here, within me, firmly ensconced, thriving and vibrant and always available.!
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